Men’s Issues
It’s hard to find your way these days.
Our culture can’t decide on a good story about men.
You’re surrounded by demands and criticism.
You’re made to feel guilty not only for what you’ve done but for a whole bunch of stuff you never did.
We have so many wandering, wounded pieces.
The loneliness of trying to make it is overwhelming.
Distractions and vices that made you lose respect for other men now claim your time and attention.
Even those arenas where you feel competent and needed are tainted by feelings of futility.
Your friendships mean a lot to you, but they don’t do much to shore you up.
It’s an exhausting way to live.
Placating those who don’t appreciate you.
Backing off when you want to move closer.
Standing at a distance from your dreams, merely fantasizing about going after them.
You can do so much better.
It’s time to reveal the genuine man beneath the pain, frustration, and heartache.
The therapy I’m inviting you to is a deep dive into your story – not rehashing the past but introducing you to the unique and profoundly felt parts that you’ve brought with you into your life today.
You will begin to see your life not as a series of events and choices but in terms of meaning and purpose. You must understand the agreements you make (and how you make agreements without even realizing it). Until you see your patterns, you can’t take control.
This is what narrative therapy and IFS are all about.
You have a lot of characters inside you, and in therapy, you’ll get to know them very well. You’ll meet them and treat them with the compassion, confidence, and clarity that they – and you – need right now.
You’ll also cultivate the inner parent that they’re dying for. No more letting the scared, selfish, or insecure parts take over and run you off track!
Additionally, we’ll use EMDR to disrupt the ingrained reactive patterns in your brain that make change so difficult. Not everyone needs the full, eight-phase EMDR treatment, but all my clients benefit from learning how to use the techniques so they have access to the best parts of themselves.
That change you’ve been craving? It’s time.
Whatever your journey looks like right now – whatever your struggles…
We guarantee you it’s not hopeless, and it’s not too much to work with.
When you reframe your story and align it with your inner world, you’ll be revitalized… and you’ll also see how everything else starts to line up for you.
It happens one choice at a time – the first being whether you make the call.
Reach out today to schedule your free consultation:(970) 316-3939